Negative Energy

I always hear people say they stray away from negative vibes, energy, and thoughts because they don't need that in their lives. I completely agree, but at the same time don't give that negative energy that much energy. For example,  I recently heard someone use an analogy basically saying if they claim something and someone negatively speaks against it then it fucked up. Now that, I disagree with. If something is meant for you then it's yours for the taking. All you gotta do is go get it and then Boom! When I was 25 I bought a car I couldn't afford, was going out and partying four days a week, and had about 4 dollars left every Thursday before payday Friday. I told numerous people I had to find a job to fit my lifestyle. Everybody said nah, it don't work like that, you better start budgeting..... Shiiiddddd, I wouldn't hearing it, and didn't hear it. Few months before my 26th I had enough income to support my bills and bad habits combined. I won't leave out the guts and glory like I didn't struggle month upon month borrowing money from cash into check places just to borrow it again once I paid it back. However, what I spoke and believed into exisistence for myself came into fruition despite anyone else's thoughts, advice, or criticism. Believe in what the hell you want and go get it. It's waiting on you.  If you let negativity slow you down, then that's your fault. I had to write this to remind myself of who I am.