A few years ago I wrote a lyric saying, "if I can smile and she can laugh then sex is just a plus." That's all fine and dandy until you realize the sex is trash, but that's neither here nor there. A smile can make your day better, but laughter can change your life. Some people will tell you it adds years to your life and I believe that shit might just be true! After years of being a manwhore I crowned this young lady with the title of being my girlfriend. She was officially the third one to carry that title and she was proud to have it at the time. Hell, I was even proud to give it to her. I can admit that. We had a spring fling that ended abruptly, but I would have married her off the strength that she made me smile and laugh on a daily basis no matter what kind of day I had or was having. That shit is rare. In the screenplay/movie "Fences" Troy says the following lines to Rose, "I can sit up in her house and laugh. Do you understand what I'm saying? I can laugh out loud . . . and it feels good. It reaches all the way down to the bottom of my shoes. Rose, I can't give that up." Now im not condoning cheating by any means, but i felt that shit. It's something about laughter that touches the soul. Seek that in your own relationship. Now if you're wondering why I didn't marry my spring fling, I'll tell you. Our sex was trash, but that's neither here nor there.